| People that have no kids cannot understand how | | | | exhausted. If you have a possibilities to find someone |
| much pressure kids put on a marriage. What ones | | | | to baby-sit than do it and go out. We, in particular, |
| was a couple that spent time together, alone, | | | | have no one to look out for our kids, no one as |
| watching movies, going out for a breakfast, lunch, | | | | grandmas and we don't like to leave our boys to |
| dinner, going for a long walks, sleeping and many | | | | people that we don't know and are not close to us. |
| other things unnoticeable becomes parents. This new | | | | Even if grandma decides that she would be with kids |
| role makes you tense because children are small and | | | | in the evening, I am not sure if we would know how |
| they want their needs met right away. They cry, | | | | to behave because we haven't been anywhere, |
| argue, and throw themselves all over the place, no | | | | without the kids, for at least seven years. Maybe we |
| matter where you are, so that makes it difficult to | | | | wouldn't know what to do in a public place, just the |
| stay relaxed. Parents very often argue between | | | | two of us with no need to be stressed about how |
| themselves just because kids tempt them all the | | | | our kids behave. Anyway, we are trying to stay in |
| time and they are stressed. This is all normal and | | | | touch. There are, of course, periods that are more |
| those are your kids that you love very much so you | | | | difficult than others are. That is when relationship |
| must be patient until they get bigger and become | | | | between parents is more in trouble but when it |
| more independent. | | | | passes you can get closer again. It is important to |
| Until that time comes, parents should occasionally | | | | make that love last and renew it from time to time |
| think about themselves as a couple. Just try | | | | while your children get bigger and more independent. |
| somehow to stay connected. It is very hard to even | | | | Than you can go back to the way it was before you |
| find time to watch a whole movie, even if you put | | | | became parents. It can never be the same, just |
| your kids to sleep earlier because both of you are | | | | better. |